What does it mean to be involved with or married to someone who comes from a different class background? Negotiation and a keen understanding of what is occurring are important. Knowledge of the hidden rules is important. Being able to talk about the hidden rules is even more crucial. These are healing mechanisms, so that if you want your relationship to continue, it is possible to have mutual respect most of the time.

Mutual respect is one of the keys to a long-lasting relationship. If there is any rule of thumb I have found in all my years of consulting with organizations and individuals on the hidden rules, it’s that…

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